“I cannot say goodbye to you, no matter how I try.”
The majority of couples who have invested time, emotions and desires into their relationship feel pretty much the same about that line. It is just so wrong to end a relationship because times are harder. Almost any relationship deserves a second, third, or even fourth chance. Obviously there was something good there in the beginning. Nourish it and move forward.
Almost all relationships are “salvageable”, “adjustable” and “workable” except, of course for those abusive ones. Cases of abuse relationships should end. There is no point in preserving an abusive relationship whether physical, emotional or verbal.
If you have a relationship that you feel is still worthy of your feelings then it’s just a matter of rethinking and looking at your situation differently. Do you still want your mate in your life? What are you willing to do to save your relationship? Is it still worthwhile to try saving your relationship?
For couples who go their separate ways and as a loud clamor for divorce strengthens even more, you might ask, “Is saving my relationship really possible?” The answer is a profound YES. There is no finality to a relationship when the two of you are still willing and able to change for the better and doing something to make things right.
Is it easy to let go when most relationships become too entangling? You share your private thoughts and feelings and the attachment is not just physical but also emotional. The toughest thing to do in a relationship is saying goodbye. As much as you possibly can, try not to say goodbye, just put an end to any trouble, bickering or pain and go back to first base.
Although the process of saving a relationship is a daunting task, be willing to go through the action just the same as you were more than willing to be involved with the person in the first place.
Saving your relationship is not only possible, it can be made better. If you still want that love in your life, then go back to the beginning and put in the effort. Your love can be stronger than ever.